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Why Private Victories Are the Key to Public Success: 🏆

True success isn’t built on external achievements alone — it starts with mastering yourself through private victories.

Selim Uysal
2 min readJan 2, 2025
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Stephen R. Covey, in his timeless book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, introduced a profound idea: Private victories precede public victories.

We often admire people’s external successes — great careers, strong relationships, or remarkable achievements. But what we don’t see are the private battles they’ve won to get there.

What Are Private Victories?

Private victories are the small, personal wins that happen behind the scenes:

  • Building self-discipline by showing up for yourself every day.
  • Developing integrity by aligning your actions with your values.
  • Mastering your emotions by responding thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively.

Covey relates the first three habits — Be Proactive, Begin with the End in Mind, and Put First Things First — to private victories. These habits focus on personal mastery, helping you take control of your life, clarify your values, and prioritize what truly matters.

“Private victories precede…

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Selim Uysal
Selim Uysal

Written by Selim Uysal

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦Dad & Husband, 🩹Humanitarian Professional, 📚 Lifelong Learner. I share my learnings on personal growth and productivity. newsletter.selimuysal.net

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